Hi, I'm Bill!

Take a step toward a new way of connecting with your partner.
Join forces with me and let me show you a new world of intimacy and pleasure.

Hi, I'm Bill McKinley!

Take a step toward a new way of connecting with your partner.
Join forces with me and let me show you a new world of intimacy and pleasure.
Bill McKinley is a writer, bodyworker, gay entertainer and student of Gestalt theory and practice. He has coached and mentored hundreds of women and men in sexual intimacy for over twenty years. His work has been published in The Daily Beast and HuffPost, where his recent piece on coaching women in oral sex was the #1 story on their site.

PRESS

You're ready to make changes in your love life.

You love your partner, but feel there could be more. Or things are on the rocks and you want to get back the connection you once had. Or you just want to spice things up.

We can help! 

Intimate University is about...

  • More confidence
  • ​More clarity
  • ​More connection
  • More pleasure
  • More excitement
  • ​More fun
  • More knowledge
  • ​More collaboration
  • More orgasms! 

Is this you? 

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You have a loving relationship with your husband or partner but you want to spice things up

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​You have an okay sexual relationship with your husband or partner but you’d like to feel more confident and powerful in bed

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You’re recently single and want to feel prepared new types of sexual connections and pleasures

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You want to get past outdated ideas about sex and feel permission to feel that pleasure that you deserve and is available to you

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You’d like to have a better source of sexual education than pornography.

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​You wish you had a safe, comfortable and nonjudgemental space to talk about sexual intimacy and get your questions answered.
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Here are some the ways people get stuck in sex:

Fear about not doing it “right”

Lack of information and education–real info, not just porn

Worried about being a “slut”

Not having someone to talk to

Worried about outdated or limiting beliefs

​Tired of feeling “not good enough”

Here’s the truth about sexual and physical intimacy

You can’t do this alone.
Nobody knows how to have really hot sex without some mentorship.

You need education based on proven results. This is a sentence you can write yourself. 

Taking action leads to success. This is a sentence you can write yourself. 

This is going to take courage. This is a sentence you can write yourself. 

Fail forward. This is a sentence you can write yourself. 
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Conquer your inner critic. This is a sentence you can write yourself. 

Are you ready for Intimacy Coaching?

Intimacy Coaching is for you if....

  • You’re curious to learn new techniques
  • You’re courageous about changing things up in your sex life
  • You want to be the best lover you can be
  • You want to work with an experienced, supportive coach

This is not for you if ...

  • Your partner is currently hurting you physically
  • Substance use is part of the problem
  • You’re afraid of making some changes
  • You (and your partner(s) are already content with your love life​

TAKE A STEP

The people I work with are Curious, Courageous, and Loving. 
If that’s you, then here are the different ways you can work with me:

Individual Coaching

I offer one-on-one private coaching sessions with clients who want my undivided attention, want the fastest results possible, or who aren’t comfortable in a group or class setting. 
My sessions last one hour, with a two-hour minimum first booking. Packages of six sessions are available at a discount. I ask all potential clients to fill out an intake questionnaire, and I interview each potential client in advance to make certain we’re a good fit.

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Small Group Classes

Approximately once a month, I offer a small-group class lasting four weeks, for two hours each week. Classes are first-come, first-served,  limited to no more than twelve participants, and are conducted via Zoom. 
I ask all potential students to fill out an intake questionnaire,  to make certain the class has the right mix.
Classes are not recorded, and participants are free to use only their first names. Students will have the option to stay in touch afterward with a private online group, and graduates will have access to my once-monthly private live Q&A sessions.

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Workshops and Special Events

I am available for special events: self-organized groups, bridal showers, etc.; please contact me to discuss your event.
* Please note: all sessions and courses are paid in full, in advance. 
Refunds are not available. In case of withdrawal, some or all of any remaining fees will be donated to a charity of my choice, or to The Trevor Project (the world's largest suicide prevention and crisis intervention organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning (LGBTQ) young people).

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Monthly Q and As

Once a month, I conduct a private live “Q&A” session for members of my mailing list, and once a month, I conduct a live “Ask Me Anything” for the general public. Both are part of my effort to provide access to sexual intimacy information for everyone, free of charge.

Public Speaking

I am available to speak at public events, on podcasts, at conferences etc. Please contact me directly.

 Online Courses

 I am in the process of developing a course of study that will be accessible individually, both on personal computer and smartphones. For more information (and for early-access discounts), please join my mailing list. own words.

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

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